The curse of an old cell phone

Tuesday, August 10, 2010
This past weekend, I had the wonderful opportunity to hang out with some fabulous bloggers (I would link to all of you but I'm lazy) at BlogHer. Not that I was part of the conference (on my unemployed budget? heavens no), but I managed to snag some people's free time when they weren't meeting Padma or eating cheeseburgers or whatever else they were doing over at the Hilton.

There were a number of moments over the weekend where I just had to laugh to myself because, as is sort of understandable for people in social media, everyone was on their iPhones and BlackBerries all the time. I mean, ALL. THE. TIME. The reason I thought this was funny is because I think I'm the lone person remaining in the 20-something age bracket who does not possess a smartphone.

I KNOW. I will give you all a moment to go grab some Benadryl for the hives you just broke out in at the thought of having a phone on which you cannot check email.

I've been meaning to upgrade to a BlackBerry ever since I became eligible for a new phone almost a year and a half ago. The thing is, my little LG flip phone is the most reliable thing I have ever encountered in life, and for awhile I was loathe to fix something that technically ain't broke. Now that it's come to the point where I really WANT to upgrade (phone still works like a charm, though), I refuse to do so until I have a job. It will be both a congratulatory present to myself as well as a lovely confirmation that I can now officially afford the inevitable increase in cell phone bill that will come with having to pay for data.

My lack of a smartphone has never really bothered me all that much, mostly because I've been able to work around it and it doesn't inconvenience anyone other than myself. However, I was reading BusinessWeek yesterday and came across something truly disturbing.

33 percent of iPhone users find out-of-date gadgets a turnoff.

As if I wasn't already doomed to fail at the NYC dating scene. I'm now doubly doomed.

Epic fail. Going to hang my head in out-of-date phone shame.

UPDATE: I wrote this post this morning and planned on posting it when I got home from my temp job (you know, one of the few temp jobs that didn't reject me because I don't have enough admin experience). I have since been offered this job on a full-time basis and turned it down (I am not a receptionist, thank you), but negotiated a way to stay here until I find a permanent job that I actually want and maybe needed an MBA for. Does this mean I am now allowed to get myself a Blackberry? Or is that cheating? Does having a fake job to go to until I get a real job count for something? I can't decide.

6 comments:

Jessica (Bayjb) said...

Yeah sorry about the phone thing. I just get wicked excited and want to tweet all the cool sh*t we were doing. It was seriously so much fun to hang out with you again and get our drink on. Just wait until you come to Chicago!!! With a Blackberry or not :)

Julianne said...

I had an old LG until like a month ago, so yeah, I was really late to the smartgame too. And yeah, it is kinda amusing how everyone is on their phones all the time.

It was great to meet you this weekend!

Mega said...

I am much happier since I downgraded to a cheap and clunky phone a year ago. I can call and text and its all I need. I do not feel the need to be on gmail or facebook all the time. In addition to saving a lot of dough. Thats just me I guess. And really, do you want to date someone who needs their significant other to own a fancy phone? If that is one of their requirements I'd hate to see the rest of their demands.

Amy said...

When I had my blackberry, I actually took off the data plan and used it like a regular phone- calls and text features only. It was sorta due to lowering my monthly bill, but I'm glad I did it, because I became less addicted to the internet and didn't even miss the smartphone features!

ahem- but now I have the new iphone and I don't think I'll go back to a regular phone. However, I still dont feel the need to obsessively check my email/twitter etc

Susan said...

I wasn't even at BlogHer, but because I was tweeting and Fouresquaring and stuff when I was in NY for my event, I came across a bunch of opportunities to meet up with people (even though I couldn't), like you! That's kind of why I love my smartphone, it leaves room for serendipity.

I think a new phone is a fabulous present for yourself!

Erica said...

Can we go together?

Because not only am I with you in being the only 20-something without a phone, I am actually employed IN social media. It's the most embarrassing thing ever. After years of hoping my boss would buy me a phone, I am giving up and caving in.

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